
Fonda's first husband, from 1965-1973, was
French film director
Roger Vadim, with whom she had a daughter,
Vanessa born in 1968 and named for actress and activist
Vanessa Redgrave. According to her 2005 autobiography, Fonda participated in sexual
threesomes at Vadim's suggestion.
In 1973, shortly after her divorce from Vadim, Fonda married author and politician
Tom Hayden. Their son,
Troy Garity (born 1973) was given his paternal grandmother's surname. "Troy" was an Americanization of the name of a young communist Vietnamese hero accused of conspiring to kill Robert McNamara in Vietnam. With Hayden, she also raised a
foster daughter,
Mary Luana Williams, who is an activist born to members of the
Black Panthers. Fonda and Hayden divorced in 1990.
Fonda's third husband (1991-2001) was cable-television tycoon and
CNN founder
Ted Turner. In My Life So Far, Fonda states that she "left the father's house" when she divorced Turner. In addition to having become a Christian, Fonda's desire to disassociate herself from
patriarchy may have contributed to the divorce.
Fonda has also had romantic relationships with
Alexander "Sandy" Whitelaw, a film director, with whom she was involved in 1960;
Donald Sutherland, with whom she co-starred in Klute and dated in the 1970s; and
Barry Matalon, a hairdresser whom she dated in the 1990s.